The Crate

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It’s been a while. Too long. I know. Things I’ve said before. But I mean it. I used to publish here every week, and life kind of forced a pause on that. A lot has changed, but I miss the writing. I intend to start it up again, slowly, like easing into freezing waters. How […]

Be Fucking Proactive

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I got angry tonight. Not pissy or enraged or righteously indignant. Just angry, and (I think) appropriately so. I heard from someone for the first time in months. Someone from a trans support group. Someone who actively volunteers to play a support role for trans people who don’t have families to lean on. But after […]

Talking to Myself (Again)

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I’ve admitted before that I talk to myself. I really do. Out loud. On and off all day. And most of those conversation are either me ranting about something I’m upset about (not helpful) or rehearsing how I’ll deal with something bad happening (also not helpful) or going off on someone who’s not actually there […]

Mixed Bag

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I mentioned an announcement last week, and I feel like I owe you that. (You, my imaginary readers. How I love your imagined loyalty.) So here it is. I started hormone replacement therapy. SCIENCE is officially in the mix, people. Weird science, even. How awesome is that? But as happy as I am about that […]

Sneezing and Peeing

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You shouldn’t sneeze and pee at the same time. If it’s even possible, that is. I mean, assume you can’t. I don’t actually know. I haven’t Googled it because I’m not INSANE, but it makes sense. If you were about to pee and you sneezed, I just assume everything would clench. Nothing is leaving your […]


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First, yes. It’s been a while. Let’s not make a thing of it, okay? Look, I promise if you give me, like, 1 minute, it’ll all make sense. Quite a bit has changed and before long you’ll feel like absolute shit for making all those faces at the screen instead of just calming the fuck […]